How to eliminate boredom and revive the declining sex drive

Satisfaction is achieved in a sexual relationship can arise in a variety of different flavors and each person has a different taste. "It's like ice cream," the man commented.

Many people are tempted to commit sexual adventure after a long time of marriage. The main cause of this is the emergence of boredom in sexual, emotional, or even both. Humans are naturally attracted to variation and change. As in a marriage. within a certain time, a person will experience a decrease in sexual desire in life during marriage, because the pressure inside her boredom.
The face is cheerful and happy, vibrant touch, and engaging personality  just become solely a mere convenience. Sex becomes routine and mechanical. Some people are grieving over the loss. some adventure. And some can find exciting new ways to each other and revive a flagging sex drive due to boredom.
here are six styles that you can make reference to eliminate boredom and revive the declining passion:

Tumultuous passions.

Sex is done in lustful pressures will be felt to be a selfish thing. It was like an itch that must be scratched immediately. But many people say this is a phase for a woman to enjoy sex in a step by step sex itself. Indeed, this is interesting from a trap chase chase lust.
 

Spiritual.

When husband and wife are in bed with the feeling grateful to have each other, it feels like a living, or spiritually revived. Sometimes this happens due to previous events, such as disease and some other crisis, or a form of sexual intimacy  when everything feels special and full of love.
Spiritual sex would seem remarkable if it fits your mood. The only way to create it is by being open and maintain small moments that should not be sexual. Thus, try to recall those moments when you're both making out in bed. Tell him how you feel at that time, and let feel turned into lovemaking.

Soft.

When the bride's father was told to give discourses to her male suitor, the standard sentence would usually say, "Be ye gentle to your wife". But it was in earlier times. Women today no longer such a fragile flower. But make no mistake, a little tenderness was still very powerful in bed.
Sex is the opposite of the gentle sex lustful, soft and slow, with light touches. Sex on the type can be combined with massage, oil, and kiss a lot, will be introduction to sexual experience was exciting and intense. In addition, the gentle sex is a good way to make up after a fight. 

Please

Again the mood is not meant to be in serious Condition. you both should be able to laugh during sex that is running interrupted or when one among your legs tangled blanket or two at the unexpected happens on the bed. you should be able to tease each other with affection.
Sometimes, attempts to evoke a feeling this will come true really feels worthwhile. you have to instill in you an understanding that sex is not necessarily serious. you should be able to shed off the desire and passion that is in you to your partner when in bed. Thus, it becomes is a very appropriate action. But sex does not always have silly fun but can also be funny, bawdy or old temptation that could be considered as "flavor". 

Fantasy

If you want to increase the volume of your sex life, you must develop a fantasy sexual imagination to yourself. In a fantasy involving sex, purpose and intent involved. You must be willing to change and decided to try something new. Sometimes, one of the more gifted in the area of ​​developing fantasy than the other pair. "My wife is a inisiator at the beginning of our sexual relationships. One day he brought home some porn videos and he expressed willingness to experiment with things that can make me very excited." said Anton, a lawyer at a firm lawyer.
Some couples even bring wishlist when recording both went to bed to start their sexual activity. This is very nice because then ties the bed you can be intimate. You can add sexy things to the list and cross it off every time you've done that. Therefore, taste, openness, and courage to try something new will be able to revive the passion which had declined and outages. 

Full of Anger

Aggressive energy can be used as an aphrodisiac lust in a parallel relationship and loving. But this kind of sex comes up with a warning. If both of you are angry and want reconciled. sexuality can be used as a bridge to get back to the relationship. But if the problem is not resolved, and if you can not overcome cause of your anger, sex could be this type of dysfunctional patterns undesirable both sides
Make love / mad is mad love in the real sense. You can be 'rough' on your partner. You also get him to sleep on her back in bed. Then sit on his chest and "forced" him to behave. Guaranteed, you will get major attention from himself.

How to remain strong....as long as he likes

                             
Premature ejaculation is a disaster. there is no option other more polite words to describe it. This has nothing to do with the woman's sexiness, or extreme shyness, or also benchmarks your virility. All these reasons are usually the scapegoat to revive the spirit of people ejaculating prematurely, but it's all nonsense. There should be an attempt to do something before the relationship began to sour.

This plan is divided into three steps:

1. Teach good tactics to slow climax, and this can be put into practice immediately.

2. and 3. Guiding you to improve your self-control over your climax.
FIRST STEP

IMMEDIATE SELF ADJUSTMENT TECHNIQUE

Start by playing around (with the beginning of the game, for example) as much as possible with all its diversity. It's the easiest and most common way to avoid this is not concurrent. Usually not easy to know when your partner approached climax, the approach is arguably the safest. Change the rhythm and the type of stimulation can mean your spouse is still far from an orgasm during intercourse, even if the game you've made ​​it almost satisfied. The only way to solve this problem is to make sure that she had a climax before penetration

ORIENTAL ENGINEERING: NEW TYPE OF PENETRATION

The technique that has been practiced for thousands of years ago, this is the most basic technique of intercourse proved successful. Learn this technique carefully, so in theory you might be no longer the limit. Men with rub his cock, while she receives friction was not in her vagina, but the clitoris slightly upwards slightly. This asymmetrical position will make the road to pleasure, and even to the satisfaction for some couples.
SOME VARIATIONS APPROACH THAT DESIRE CAN BE USED AS

Swing: A basic technique. The entire left inside the penis partner. and then he moved his hips slowly over the clitoral area partner.

Rubbing How France: Lovers rubbing type french way her hips move by rounds minor partner in the abdominal area while keeping its focus on dekanan between his legs. This movement is not so natural, and to be quite sociable man drew back a little longer. But if done well will give satisfactory results.

Star of the Sea: With your partner lying on her side while lying on your back, you can emphasize your thighs and between her legs to give pleasure to the desired area without having to move too much penis. Your partner can set and change the position of your legs and the pressure as he wishes.
PACIFIC ENGINEERING: PELVIC MUSCLE EXERCISE

That set up a climax by using pelvic floor muscles, also known as pubococygeal or PC muscle. Patients can learn ejaculatory control in two ways: add strength, and experimenting to figure out which fits ang. Some men find that once they can stop premature mengistirahatkannya manner at the most critical moment. While others have with the flex.

STEP TWO 

LEARN SELF CONTROL 

Premature ejaculation can be cured by any early exercise. The process can take several months, and to be able to be skilled even longer, but somehow this method healthy, gradual, and very effective.

 Each exercise should be done three times a week, but more often the better.

     Make masturbation for fifteen minutes without ejaculating. If you're feeling almost at the top and can not get back again, stop and relax. if you are able to control myself anymore, go back. Continue until complete fifteen minutes.
     Make masturbation for fifteen minutes without ejaculating. If you're feeling almost at the top and can not get back again, do not stop, but you change the direction of motion so that the effect decreased stimulation.
     Next exercise aims to increase your arousal level gradually during masturbation without ejaculation. If you've really mastered the second phase of the exercise, begin to create a more pleasant atmosphere. 

STEP THREE

 COUPLE WITH SELF-CONTROL STUDY

    Do masturbate in front of your partner. Exercise is important because it is a small sign of progress after three stages surpassed the previous exercise, but it can make your sexual relationship with a woman more relaxed.
    Now is the time in direct contact with your partner, in a way that is not too intimate, the sex manual by asking him to apply to you. The goal is to maintain contact as long as possible before reaching the climax. Before he did grope, Play games for a while. Make yourself getting accustomed to his presence near you and feel touches without feeling the pressure to ejaculate. When she started having sex manual, ask that he not do it loudly and in a hurry. let him wear stages and different pressures, so you are not too focused on the end result. and learn to manage it.
    Last Exercise: penetration. Do not rush to take this step. Like the last stages, you can do so with a variety of levels. Start by letting your penis move forward spin between your partner's legs and in the general area, without penetration. Familiarize yourself to have sex without any feeling should soon reach a climax. When you are fully in control, then started to go.
    Step exercise of the earliest and important of the last exercise is penetration without movement. Be silent, if necessary, for fifteen minutes, until you feel no more risk to climax. few minute you will be familiar with your partner's body, warmth, moisture, and abstract pleasure imagining yourself in his body. If your penis becomes weak due to the lack of movement, move a little, slowly and quietly. You need to do this exercise until you are fully in control, no matter how long.
    Now we come to the final step: the penetration of the movement. Remember, your goal is not to do with penile penetration is tense because it is anesthetized. In this way excessive, almost all men will reach a climax too quickly because it was too concentrated on the touch-feeling in the shaft of the penis to stimulate her partner as well. It's better if you focus on slow movement and light. Lie back and forth thigh-driven moderation. Think that you actually want to give pleasure to your partner want to give pleasure to your partner, and make sure the pressure between your pubic area both. thus he will experience clitoral stimulation. If you then are going to take control, stop. Keep your body.

Try it .....and be a success man